Archive for February, 2007

Friends… my motivation

Wednesday, February 28th, 2007

I finally did the translation job. Setelah semalaman nggak bisa tenang, I spent 52 ribu untuk naik taksi pulang-pergi ke kantor untuk bisa ambil file di PC kantor jam 11 malam, tapi office boy nggak denger. Setengah jam, ketok2 pager but … niente!

So I went back home, setelah nyumbang ke dua sopir taksi. I call Arvin… he told me to calm down. Then informed me bahwa dekat Glodok, Pinangsia, ada warnet Multiplus yang buka sejak pagi.

Jadi hari ini, I woke 5:30, mandi, berangkat dan tiba di kantor 7:00 dan naik ojek ke Glodok dari Harmoni, sampai 7:30 dan file itu bisa terkirim sebelum batas akhir yang diminta teman gue. She will do presentation with my article 9:00

Grazie Arvin, untuk info tentang Multiplus.

Gracias Feliz, untuk pengertiannya… I didn’t reply your SMS last night, I explained why I was so panic. Your reply also made me cool.

Hmmm… finalmente...

Merci, Malen…

Your silly face, your shark-teeth… your SMS too, it keeps my sanity, my feet on ground and gives me power to keep-up the spirit while I was re-typing all those 12 pages.

Friends… my motivation

+ yoDi +

Calm down

Wednesday, February 28th, 2007

Itulah yang penting dilakukan saat ada masalah besar. See the problem, don’t run from it, face the reality and …

I can do it!

Now I can write again, some great motivational story…

Saat masih belum kelar, she calls me, SMS me, I didn’t pick it up, apalagi reply. I concentrate on finishing the task…

Luckily, she thinks positive… so did I.

So I decided to re-do all the article di warnet, sambil buka account friendster, while I am looking at someone’s profile. Her cute smiling face on the photo, it keeps me smiling, and motivates me.

I can’t quit, harus selesaiin tugas, don’t run away.

So I explain my friend tentang situasinya, she understood and wait, gave me another chance, motivated me to finish the job.

I’m not even thinking about the payment, it’s just an experience that I learned. I realized kualitas terjemahan gue, mungkin masih di bawah standar. Nerjemahin naskah artikel berupa undang-undang atau peraturan pemerintah, nggak segampang daily conversation!

But that’s OK… Harus membiasakan diri, untuk dapet tugas yang makin susah, that’s the challenge…

Yeah! Yeah! I finished it…

Sekarang baru bisa ngasih pelajaran, saat sedang bingung, panik, stres or whatever… lakukan STOP

Sit, duduk untuk bisa tenang dulu

Think, pikirkan apa sumber masalah dan gimana cara mengatasinya

Observe, perhatikan… kondisi dan situasi, tanya sendiri "What if…?" pikirkan apa yang terjadi jika melakukan atau tidak melakukan suatu hal. Apa jadinya, if I quit, or if I try to finish it…

Plan, lalu buat rencana. I did that, setelah duduk tenang, buka account friendster, lalu mikir apa yang mesti dikerjakan, juga efeknya kalo nyerah atau kalo terus nyoba, dan akhirnya I decided to re-do all the article.

"Plan your work, then work your plan" (Author unknown)

Hmmm… I’m satisfied with what I did today. Semoga bisa memotivasi untuk yang membaca.

+ yoDi +

Thanks for that silly smile…that keeps me alive, you know…

Bad things happen!

Wednesday, February 28th, 2007

My friend asked me to help do translation, 12 pages.

I said, I can. But it went all wrong!

My home PC has no internet connection, I downloaded from internet the article and work on it at office. But, my office already use Microsoft 2007 yang menyebabkan nggak bisa dibuka ketika di warnet yang masih versi lama. Also at my office, belum ada jaringan internet, juga ga ada warnet di sekitar situ.

So at warnet dekat rumah, I retyped all, dari artikel awal, nerjemahin lagi…

Tirng job! Useless too, mungkin date-line tugas dia juga udah lewat. I disappointed her, screw her job, me too… I screw my reputation, and probably will lose my good relation with a friend.

Bad things happen, sometimes…

Today I’m not writing some great stuffs, some cool ideas or motivational quotes. I’m so stressed with this condition…

I can calm myself, probably by saying "It’s just an episode, masih ada hari esok.." Yeah, but my reputation as a shadow-translator is threatened!

She already works in international organization, she probably will "sing" about this, and one day when I apply again there…

*>~#@$^N!

I don’t wanna blame on environments, even there are kids who walk bare-foot for miles daily, just to go to nearest village entering a leaky-roofed school, just to learn alphabet.

Is it because lack of strong-will? Probably, I wasn’t trying hard enough… I over-rate my own ability, I could refuse her offer at the first time, but… I decided at that time, I would like to try! She trusted me, but I blew it!

Yeah, this day will pass, but at least I learn something today.

- yod! -

Poetry: A good friend

Sunday, February 25th, 2007

Una buona amica

Una buona amica
Tu sei e sempre sarai
Una poesia unica
Tu ancora mi inspirai

Piu preziosa di oro
Ecco che sento di me
Piu caro di tesoro
Ecco quando insieme

Non basta mai di una vita
Per essere buon amici
Non finira mai di carita
Per sempre noi, felici

=

A good friend

A good friend
You are and always be
A poetry I send
You again inspired me

More precious than gold
That’s how I sense the pride
More than treasure, words untold
That’s when friendship abide

With a life-time to share
As a good friend, decide to be
With an endless joy to care
As always, then, I write to thee

+ yoDi +

:) Tu eres una amiga buena de mi…

Friendship

Wednesday, February 21st, 2007

Friendship
Amicizia
Amistad
Amitié
Amizade
Freundschaft
Philia

How to describe it?
A good article must be creative
in the way you deliver it.
It gives the readers knowledge
as well as insight out of your
explanation.

So, friends… I would like to compare
FRIENDSHIP and DRUGS

What?!

Yes, there are 3 kinds of medicine,
based on the effects:

- Stimulant

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stimulant
- Anti-depressant

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anti_depressant
- Hallucinogen

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hallucinogen

Or in simple words…

1. Giving extra energy, it triggers
the nerve system to be more active,
the muscle become stronger and
more stamina as the result

2. Tranquilizer, giving peace, relax
and comfort. Reducing stress, fear,
panic and tension. Help to make
us feel calm.

3. Create sensation of joy, illusion
and sometimes hallucination. It makes
us in ceaseless laughter without any
reason. Then we start to imagine
things ain’t real. Said that, it
makes us more creative.

The 1st are alike of AMPHETAMINE,
the main ingredient that modified into
what we know as ECSTASY
(MDMA-Methylen Dioxy Metha
Amphetamine). You’ll seems to never
get tired after consuming it

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Methylenedioxymethamphetamine

The 2nd are alike of morphine or
valium. For medical reason, it is
allowed in tight control of dosage.
It helps patient to reduce pain
during a surgery.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Morphine

The 3rd were simply invented just to
have fun. Said that, the shamans
or charlatans (dukun2 dalam agama pagan)
used it during rituals, to make the
sensation, as if they see visions
from the divine creatures.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychedelic

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shamanism

Enough with the science, I don’t
know the price list, I’m no junkie
or a pusher.

Sadly, those drugs are misused!
Also, it makes us must rely on
medications, while instead what
we really need is a friend.
For health reason, it is OK
to depend on pharmaceutical substances.

But, those effects actually can
also be created… by us!
If we become good friends.

Here’s a quote, from a song lyric:

Don’t give up
It’s just the weight of the world
When you’re heart’s heavy
I…I will lift it for you

Don’t give up
Because you want to be heard
If silence keeps you
I…I will break it for you

Everybody wants to be understood
Well I can hear you
Everybody wants to be loved
Don’t give up
Because you are loved

Don’t give up
It’s just the hurt that you hide
When you lost inside
I…I will be there to find you

Don’t give up
Because you want to burn bright
If darkness blinds you
I…I will shine to guide you

Everybody wants to be understood
Well I can hear you
Everybody wants to be loved
Don’t give up
Because you are loved

You are loved
Don’t give up
It’s just the weight of the world
Don’t give up
Every one is to be heard
You are loved

(Josh Groban, You are loved/Don’t Give Up;
AWAKE, 3rd album)

Buy and listen that!

http://joshgroban.com/

A good friend can be:

- Motivator, when you’re lost,
they make you realize what you
were meant to be. They help you
find your purpose. They push you,
help you to grow. They make you
feel excited. Together you’ll feel
that ‘We can do it!’

- Counsellor, when you’re
in an unpleasant emotional condition
(Sad, angry, anxious, freak-out, etc)
Ketika sedang bete, dengan hanya
jadi pendengar yang baik, itu udah
nolong meredakan ketegangan.
Karena kadang, yang mereka butuh
bukan nasehat
. They just need another
person to talk to.

- Joker, so you really need a break.
Send them your best collections
of humor, silly riddles or jest
with them. Help them to laugh,
watch comodo.. oops, I mean comedy :)
or cartoon. Dig out their wild-side,
go crazy with them, let them spill
all their secrets, create innovative
ideas and have fun together.

That’s what friends are for…
To be your drugs, and you can say
"Wow, I am addicted to you!"

Poi, leggiamo La Sacra Bibbia…
Lettere del San Paolo

Agli Ebrei, Capitolo 10
(24)
Cerchiamo anche di stimolarci a
vicenda nella carità e nelle opere buone

Ai Colossesi, Capitolo 4
(6)
Il vostro parlare sia sempre con grazia,
condito di sapienza, per sapere come
rispondere a ciascuno

Ai Filippesi, Capitolo 4
(4)
Rallegratevi nel Signore, sempre;
ve lo ripeto ancora, rallegratevi
(8) In conclusione, fratelli,
tutto quello che è vero, nobile,
giusto, puro, amabile, onorato,
quello che è virtù e merita lode,
tutto questo sia oggetto dei
vostri pensieri

And, just a joke…
Good friend is like a bra for breasts.

It gives you warmth, comfort and protection
It knows all your secret parts,
whether big or small.
It always supports you when you’re down.
And… always stay close to your heart!

Are you laughing?
Come on, smile at least…

Finalmente, Dai Proverbi 17:17

"Un amico vuol bene sempre,
è nato per essere un fratello
nella sventura."

Io sono e sempre sarò un amico per te!

+ yoDi +

Let’s cook

Tuesday, February 20th, 2007

Before a chef started to create,
they must firstly decided:
What kind of ingredient,
the spice, taste, setting,
aroma and also the name of it.

Cooking! It can be an analogy
of our life. On what we want to be
in career path, on to whom we’ll
going to share a life-time with,
on what’s your
razon de existir

It would be better to start it
by learning from book of recipe.

Then to had decided and imagined
the result going to be. Then to
whom you will serve your food.

So does in writing or giving
presentation.

Set the purpose, what kind of
reaction you expect from your
audience. Then decide a theme,
find out sources of information,
break-down into chapters,
combine all. Add some spice,
with humor, examples, play with
intonation, gesture and mimic.

Or in writing…

Don’t just put words on paper,
build the mood, the context
and lead readers to enter
to ‘your world’

So does the cooking lesson applied
in life. Do you have a purpose?

What kind of meal, you wished to
put on the dishes? How?

Everyone can cook!
But not everyone can make delicious food
And not everyone who can do it,
are also able to open a restaurant,
to let others want to buy your serving.

With a special recipe, Colonel Sanders
rules the world with his KFC.

To be an impact!
To have a value, and to influence
other to reach the quality you’ve had.

A quote from a writing guru,
Frank Scott Fitzgerald:
==
You don’t write because you want to
say something; but because you have
something to say.

==

Bedanya ada dalam perencanaan,
persiapan dan pelaksanaan.

Ada tiga jenis orang:

- Menentukan tujuan sejak awal,
lalu bertindak sesuai target. Idealis.
- Mencoba, lewat trial-error, baru
ketemu tujuan dan akhirnya sukses juga.
- Ga tau atau mau tau tentang tujuan,

just have fun, enjoy life, can go
anywhere and be anything.

Who are you?
Decide what you want to be!

Purpose, that’s what makes us want to
achieve great things in life.

Reason to exist!
= Decide what to cook

Enjoy your life!
= Choose the taste and spice

Live properly!
Rely on God’s will too…
and always live for your purpose.
= Guided with the book of recipe,
that you must daily read.

==
Avec raison d’etre et joie de vivre,
cum modus vivendi proprio et Deo volente,
semper vivemus!

==

Noi possiamo dimenticare, ignorare o non
ancora realizzato che è la nostra
ragione di esistere. Vedi alle abilite
che Dio ti ha dato a ogni di noi.
Saprai perche e come dovrai di vivere.

We may forget, ignore or haven’t realized
what’s our reason of existing. Look at the
talents that God has given to each of us.
You’ll know why and how you must live.

Nos puedemos olvidar, ignorar o no ahora
realizado que es la nuestra razon de existir.
Miras a tus habilidades que Dios tiene da
a cada de nos. Sabras porque e como
tendras de vivir.

==
Here’s another closing, a poem:

When you are moved by mood
One day you’ll lost the motivation
But when you keep what’s right and good
All days you live your resolution

Are you ready to cook now?

Proverb 16:3 please read

+ yoDi +

Renungan Imlek: Tahun Babi Api

Sunday, February 18th, 2007

Welcome the year of fire pig
May we be given joy & health
Welcome the bless, coming so big
May from Heaven, God grants us wealth.

Nice poem, eh?

Babi adalah shio ke-12, yang terakhir
dan katanya simbol keberuntungan dan
kekayaan.

Kisahnya dulu ada seorang anak muda
diramalkan akan jadi kaya-raya, tapi
dia malas dan malah terlalu percaya
ramalan. Lama-lama dia hanya jadi
pengemis!

Saat meninggal, arwahnya protes ke
dewa, dan sebagai hukumannya dia diubah
jadi binatang dengan ciri2:

- Ga perlu kerja berat, seperti kuda
atau kerbau.
- Ga perlu rajin bangun pagi, seperti
tikus atau ayam.
- Ga perlu sibuk nyari mangsa, seperti
macan.
- Ga gesit atau cerdik, seperti
kelinci, ular atau monyet.
- Ga punya ambisi untuk mendaki hingga
ke puncak gunung, seperti kambing. Atau
seperti naga yang selalu ingin ngejar
bola api pusaka.
- Dipelihara orang, seperti anjing yang
setia dan bisa jadi penjaga.
- Hanya tidur2an tiap hari, diberi
makan, sampai gendut.
- And… finally disembelih!

Jadilah dia seeokor babi!

Tahun ini elemennya api, yang artinya
kita harus semangat, punya antusiasme.

Karena peluang, rejeki, rizki, hokki,
berkat atau apapun istilahnya sangat
berlimpah, asalkan kita rajin.

Hey, tapi kalo dipikir, sebenarnya
tanpa harus lihat tahun apapun, asal
kita konsisten dan memakai kecerdikan
dalam usaha, bisa sukses!

Jadi bagi yang percaya atau nggak
percaya, intinya sih… teruslah kejar
ambisi, karena dengan cara itulah kita
bisa beruntung.

Juga jangan lupa untuk bagi rejeki ke
keluarga, kasih ang pao ke keponakan
atau ortu, share your bless.

And… if you have a Bible, please read:

2 Korintus 9:6-15
Mazmur 67

===

Huo de zhu yao shuo wei li ni: Xin nian
kuai le!

Il maiale del fuoco vuole dire a te:
Felice anno nuovo!

The pig fire want to wish you: Happy new
year!

El cerdo del fuego quiere decir a ti:
Feliz año nuevo!

/(^o^)\

+ yoDi +

Poetry: 3 bahasa

Thursday, February 15th, 2007

Por ti, mi amor verdad
Per te, mio amore vero
For you, my true love

==

Tu que estas a mi lado
Tu que tambien mi felizdad
Siempre por ti en pasado
Siempre tambien eternidad

Tu che stai al mio fianco
Mi dai anche felicita
Tu che sempre mi manco
Mi dai amore infinita

You who always by my side
Happiness, you’ve given me
You who always where loves abide
Happiness, I’ll share with thee

Con emocion que siempre bien
Con la luz enciende claro
Amor es orgullo y dulce tambien
Amor es siempre un milagro

Amore è dolce
Sento orgoglioso
Amore è la luce
Sento meraviglioso

Love has the bright side
It’s a wonder
Love has filled me with pride
It’s sweet and tender

Pero tambien, obligacion
Pero sere la tristeza
En mal y bien, combinacion
En la vida, naturaleza

C’è una faccia che differire
Amore è un bilancio
C’è ferita di soffrire
Amore è un sacrificio

Love has other side, forlorn
It is sacrifice
Love has made hearts be torn
It is the price

Para siempre, soy contigo
Para las noches nos tenemos
En dulce y amargo
En los dias nos vivemos

Perche per te è che voglio
Amico, amante e un uomo
Perche con te saro meglio
Amica, per te, noi saremo

Through love in many ways I can
To be with you until the end
Through night and days I’ll be your man
To be your true lover and friend

+ yoDi +

=

En tres lenguas, amigos!
In tre lingue, amici!
In three languages, friends!

:)

Hebat kan?
Wait, I’ll learn French kalo udah kelar
dengan
mis lecciones de español.

Poetry: What is it?

Tuesday, February 13th, 2007

It makes me often to smile
And filled me with felicity
It makes me to compose in style
And it increased my creativity

It makes me never felt alone
And in laughter, I once again
It comes from brain releasing hormone
And makes my ink never to drain

It is dopamine
And it makes emotion thrilled
It spurs my adrenaline
And valor raised, courage spilled

It is epinephrine
And it makes me in great joy
It makes all more than what is seen
And in Spanish ‘Feliz estoy!’

It is serotonin
And I write better than previous
It makes my wit start to spin
And suddenly I am genius

It mesmerized a lot of people
And poets use it as inspiration
It is a feeling, so simple
And it grows into adoration

It is not just today
And thus with hope and faith, it grew
It has two words, Italian say
But in English, three, I knew

‘Ogni poesia deve finire
Ma tra i giorni e mille notti
Dal profondo, sempre, dal cuore
Cara mia, ti amo, si!’

Every poetry must finish, friend
But through thousands of night and day
From deepest heart which knows no end
Yes, my dear, what must I say?

+ yoDi +

Oui, la poesie est pour toi…

Sono felice se capisci che ho scritto

Personal: Hey Boss…

Tuesday, February 13th, 2007

Just to share you about my current job.
I surprised my boss again.

It was when she asked me for a
brain-storming session about our
product development.

Here, in my department, we sell
personality profile service, and
tips on how to be able to attract
others, some kind of dating tips too.

Then, we’ll launch the singles’
gathering event. Sell products of
fashion, accesories, gemstones, etc.
Target: Youth & young adult.

When I was about to leave the office,
she offered me to another position,
where I’ll be:

1. Market researcher, learn what’s
the latest trend.
2. Brand & promotion conceptor, how
to wrap our products.
3. Recruiter & Trainer for selling crews.

Her real business is … jewelry store!
Diamonds! I just realized all…

Ternyata produk profil kepribadian dan
dating tips, hanyalah menu pembuka.
Kita sedang nyari calon konsumen untuk
beberapa tahun mendatang.

Yah, jadi my company semacam biro jodoh
bagi para pengejar karir yang udah
sukses, terlalu sibuk and no time
for dating.

Dengan produk alat tes kepribadian,
tips gimana jadi cocok,
tips dandan dan aksesoris,
lalu tips kado yang sesuai…

From zero contact, we will help our
members to grow relationship, until
they get married.

Then her other company… diamond,
I saw the links in what we did.
Married couple will buy a wedding
ring, no matter how expensive it
will be.

Kasihan juga ya jadi cowok. Dapet
kado palingan hanya kemeja, dasi,
tas kerja, jam tangan atau dompet.
Sebagai balasan untuk semua itu,
nanti si cewek akan minta dan
kudu dibeliin cincin berlian.

:) Bener-bener tidak adil! Hehe..

Selama ini, bos gue nggak pernah ngasih
tau the big picture, why and what is
the real purpose kerjaan di tiap
departemen.

But… I can guess what she wanted.
I can follow her vision and plan,
without she even told me. Maybe I’m
the first employee yang tau jalan
pikiran dia.

And she likes me even more,
karena selain ngetikin artikel sesuai
tugas, I also read and made summary
of some marketing books.

:p

I shocked her several times…

Waktu wawancara kerja, I answered
more than she expected. Karena di
sesi pertama, I looked her library,
ingetin tiap judul, dan cari tau inti
tiap buku. The 2nd interview,
sesekali I mention beberapa istilah
spesifik dari buku2nya.

She was amazed…
Diterima! Kerja…

Saat orang2 lain masih dalam proses
menyelesaikan produk. I already
wrote Modul Pelatihan Calon Selling
Crews. Tentang 4 temperamen
(Sanguin, Koleris, Melankolis &
Phlegmatis) gimana cara nyesuaiin
sikap dan gaya ngobrol dengan calon
pembeli, juga hal2 yang perlu
dipelajari para SC.

Without banyak omong, she knew I
had the ambition to be the trainer.
Uniknya adalah, file itu udah selesai
diketik, saat dia datang to my desk,
she discussed with me about the
next recruitment for Selling Crews.

Then… voila!
I opened the file, print and let her
read what I had planned.

I even had arranged the content of
our website, explain why it’s
important to build network and
community. Spread the ‘virus of idea’
supaya mereka-lah yang jadi klien
sekaligus marketer, fanatics of
our product, loyal to our brand.

She reached my desk again on
other day, same small talks, then
getting serious, then… I showed
her the file again about further plan
for the company.

Sure… she felt amazed.

Then when I was planning to move,
I asked a friend to write a CV,
one day I’ll recommend this one
as my replacement.

But I didn’t get the WORLD BANK,
so that stuff remain hidden di laci,
sampai suatu hari my boss said bahwa
I will be promoted to the Selling
Department, doing those 3 duties.
(Coba scroll lagi ke atas…)

Also to recruit a new editor as my
staff, where I will only supervise.

Bingo! So I pull my drawer, here’s
the candidate. ‘Want me to call this
person for an interview?’

Bisa pas… only less than a minute
she requested, I can provide!

Again, she smiled, kayaknya dia tau,
that I want to move, that’s why
she offered me a higher position.

I was like a magician, as if I can
read her mind, and whenever she asked
something, I am always ready to
deliver. In less than a minute, cause
I had planned a lot for her corporation.
Tinggal tunggu aja, dia minta apa,
then I’ll give her my cool ideas.

At that day, I saved her time.
Daripada harus pasang iklan di koran,
cari editor, lalu seleksi setumpuk
surat lamaran, tes kerja dan akhirnya
hanya pilih satu.

Satu bulan masa ga produktif untuk
nambah satu staf baru, I cut it
in only a minute. I helped her pick
new editor whom I will coach.
(yang dulu rencananya, untuk gantiin
kalo pindah kerja ke WB)

What’s the moral of the story?

If you want to be par excellence,
don’t work like an ordinary
employee. Think and act as the
business owner.

Follow, try to guess, and surprise
your employer with your thoughts.

Take initiative, don’t just wait orders.

Jangan berusaha mengejar, tapi
cegatlah kesempatan. That’s why,
you must always be prepared.

Then, soon, you will be promoted!

You will be an extra-ordinary,
cannot be replaced.

The boss will never want to let you
leave the job.

So this is all about diamonds!
The personality profile, the gathering
events, are just menu pembuka.
Hidangan utamanya baru akan dijual
nanti, setelah ada dari antara
club members yang beneran ‘jadi’.

Haha…

Happy Valentine!

+ yoDi +